the ArmChair Thoughts

These days, there’s been so much going around that this is lingering on my mind: There are, So many people around the world who are lacking love Even more are so many people who don’t know how to love one another, So many people walk around with low self-esteem And so many people for no [...]

Today is Valentine’s and everyone’s possibly doing something or planning to. Few posts ago, I thought of the idea of love; whatever it means to you–this is how I see it, here, here and here. All those said, this is the last of the series and I figured a better to end it is this [...]

Through the two previous posts we attempted to first, deny love; and the next post took us through re-discovering love. You might be looking forward to Valentine’s day, and to this I’m asking, what does Valentine mean to you? Approximately 259 A.D., Valentine was martyred for believing strongly in an unselfish love. The then emperor [...]

Few days ago, I wrote about the delusion of relationships and the logical impossibility of love-on-first-site. However, my claims beg the question: what gets things started in the first place? After all, you don’t know the ‘inside’ of a person on first sighting, or can you instantly figure if this is someone  you will be [...]

I’ve been asking a question for my thought experiment: “why do many promising relationships fail?” Sister – Brother, Father – Son, Cousins, and more commonly, male to female [romantic] relationship. Actually, I’ve found that, more of us find ourselves being transformed by those romantic relationships less so than other relationship in our lives. For this [...]

The weekend in now here, let’s use some loving and an upbeat message to get the weekend started in a good light (don’t mind the constant music puns): Where is the cry my heart makes? A cry for desire, A cry in the key of naturals. Like the painter’s brush on canvas, Like the golden [...]

Remembering the times when there was that feeling. As I ride the subway everyday, I see couple on every corner and for my own feel, this comes to mind: If Shakespeare where to write this He’d probably start this way: Thou Art and thou knowth whom thou Art And my heart longth for thee Oh, [...]